When Is Compassion Real?

Dear blog viewers,

Today is world compassion day!!! May God bless all those who have compassion towards all the living creatures!!!

A heartfelt person may genuinely want to be compassionate. But how do you know if you are? compassion is modest and usually silent. It’s a quality others see in you, not one that you claim for yourself. The Buddha became known as the compassionate one, he did’nt call himself that.

Is compassion known by what it does? In some ways, yes. It’s a sign of compassion if you are caring towards others and unselfish about your own needs. It shows compassion to sympathise with someone else’s suffering and to help them get out of their distress and pain.

But in the Indian spiritual tradition, compassion is not based on actions, however kind, or on feelings, however sympathetic. Compassion is a deeper quality of consciousness. It is related to Jesus’s words, “For what does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses or forfeits himself?”

Compassion is a force that focus counter to selfishness, materialism, and a total focus on external rewards. This is a recipe for frustration and failure in modern times.For compassion to be real, it must make life better and increase personal happiness. How can those benefits exit when the word compassion means, “to suffer with?”


Compassion brings its benefits as part of expanded consciousness. It’s not an isolated quality.When you expand your awareness, compassion becomes a living reality. It is one aspect of leaving ego behind and living from a higher sense of self. Through  meditation, a person finds a deeper level of the mind, and this experience changes pathways in the brain. Therefore, the more you follow the path of awareness, the more your brain is trained to allow compassionate actions and feelings to emerge.

The impulse to be sympathetic and kind exists in everyone.We all do compassionate things, and when we do, we feel better than when we act selfishly. When incidental impulses of compassion come and go, you can’t truly live the entire quality of compassion. It emerges only after you have experienced a self that doesn’t make the selfish. Insecure demands of the ego. In other words compassion is an evolved state, and when you decide that you want to evolve personality, the arrival of compassion is assured. Only the steps to reach it take time and patience.

What are those steps? They include the following:

Yoga: In the great wisdom tradition of India, yoga played an important role in the cultivation of self awareness.

 Other steps include: Do the right thing. Avoid doing what you know is wrong.

Follow the golden rule: Treat other people the way you want to be treated.

Don’t act on impulses of anger. Take responsibility for your own emotions – don’t blame others.

Be kind when you can. Respect the point of view of other people.Don’t constantly defend your own.See yourself as part of the human family, and invite everyone to be part of the same family.

Above all, practice meditation and other spiritual practices like prayer and self reflection.Your greatest aim should be the expansion of your awareness.

The article was commissioned by Deepak chopra for compassion day in Times of India, Friday, June 28, 2013

Photo Courtesy – http://www.thecompassionlab.com


Author: vedvyash

Writing is something that helped me discover the creativity and the expressionism that was hidden under the deep layers of my soul. And me!

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